Monday, May 05, 2014

Why I'm so proud to be a "promiscuous" slag...

I can’t remember the first time I got called a slag – probably around the time I started cocking my leg up in alleyways and acting like one. But I never had a problem with that, about being a slag or announcing myself as such. The problem I've always had is other people thinking that being a slag is a bad thing. Because it's not; being a slag is glorious.

This debate about promiscuity is largely about judging and shaming people – thinking that you know what’s best for them. Well, sluts really don’t need your disapproval or advice on how we should live our lives; we’re actually quite capable of making our own, terrible drunken decisions. What I can deal with, though, is your disapproval; it’s actually kind of hot. I don’t know why, just as I don't know why other people’s boyfriends taste better – they just do. And there are more and more people like me these days; come and find us on Tinder, Grindr and all those other hook up sites that, like, EVERONE (even your mum) is on. We’re all sluts now.

I prefer the term "fun" to "promiscuity" because I’m a fan of good, clear English. I can only speak from my own (admittedly vast) sexual experience, but if I get into a car with a strange man, for example, and I’m pouting and he’s looking at my legs and tits and stuff, he doesn’t drive me off for a "bit of promiscuity", he drives me off for a "bit of fun". I even looked up how the Oxford Dictionary defines promiscuity, and it says: “The fact or state of being promiscuous; immorality.”

 The word is defined as "having or characterised by many transient sexual relationships". Of course, it doesn’t tell us how many is many, because – like so much of this debate – the exact amount of people you need to sleep with to qualify as promiscuous is an arbitrary judgment imposed by other people. Full story...

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